I can not think of many as they both vastly contradict each other. I would appreciate only serious replies to my question. Also, in what ways would you contrast the two different views on the dating and mating process? I can think of many, but I would like to hear the worlds input. Thank you!
Date if you want. Mate if you want.
necessity versus duty would be my comparison. a secular view would be a thing of necessity or enjoyment. SEx in the bible is only permitted between husband and wife. Unless you want to bend the rules. Below is a link for a christian website that says what is ok and what is not ok according to the bible. Good for a laugh
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sexinchrist.com
the line is very blurred although it should be clear and distinct. A christian should put there love and obedience to Jesus ahead of their own desires. The temptation to fornicate is built into our sex drives. A christian should not date in a way as to present a way of temptation. meaning lets go out in public in groups; not snuggling on the couch drinking wine…each person you hang out with is a possible mate..other wise what is the point of dating..dating should be more of a period of courtship and discovering how you help each other grow in your commitment and service to the lord. The common beliefs should be a foundation for love respect and self sacrifice that a great relationship is based upon.. but in most cases the people in the church are bitter and self seeking and not merciful, forgiving one another…they hear a sermon and think boy i wish my partner would get that right and don’t apply the teachings to their own lack of godliness. We are to nurture one another and understand what he other needs and provide it in ways of assurance, physical care, kindness, praise and support what makes them unique rather than try to mold them into miniature versions of ourselves
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Date if you want. Mate if you want.
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